An Indian Englishman

Jtmgmemoirscover Anvar Alikhan, Amitabha Sen and I have republished an edited version of Jack Gibson's memoirs As I Saw It as An Indian Englishman Memoirs of Jack Gibson in India 1937-1969. Brij Sharma a journalist based in Bahrain edited the original. Brij spent much of his childhood and youth in Dehra Dun, and while not a product of The Doon School, he has known its campus, the surroundings of the city and much of the mountainous terrain described in Gibson's letters.

They say the journey is the reward and for the three of us, this was certainly the case!  I accomplished this project without ever speaking to all those involved and relied instead on email and web sites.  All this started a year ago, when we embarked on the creation of this web site to record memories Gibson's students and colleagues had of him.  Anvar thought the best way to ensure Gibson's legacy was to have his memoirs republished and available to anyone who wanted a copy.  In some ways this would make Gibson's letters home over 42 years last forever.  Dinesh Bhatnagar tracked down a copy of the original in the Mayo College library, and had all 700 pages scanned as pdf files and emailed to me.  Nikhil Khattau, my partner in India,  had his former secretary N. S. Rengathan retype the pdf files I emailed him as Microsoft Word files.  He emailed them back to me and I emailed them to Brij Sharma in Bahrain who edited the Word document.  I was introduced to Brij by Omar Khan, a friend in San Francisco, who knew Brij.  It was only after Brij had started reading the original memoirs that I learned he grew up in Dehra Dun!  The communication Anvar, Amitabha and I had amongst ourselves, and I with all those who provided the material that went into the book was all by email that criss-crossed 3 continents.

Finally the book was put into its current form by using the web services of My communication with my project coordinator, the person creating the layout and the graphic artists designing the cover was all via email and the web site.

Gibson could never have imagined this would be possible even 14 years after he passed away.

Jack Gibson and Aung San Suu Kyi

An excerpt of a letter from Jack Gibson:

October 20, 1970
Dear Charles [Clarke] -
I had a wonderful time in Bhutan starting off surprisingly well by crossing the King as we reached Thimpu. He jumped out of his jeep to welcome us, which I hadn't expected. On another occasion he came to the guest house to speak to me, and I wanted John Levy who was with me to record their folk and religious music to have a word with him about getting to Tongsa and Bumtang, so I sent a message quickly to John to come quickly and speak to the King.  He was in his bath (it was only 0730) and thought I meant on the telephone, so down he came in an ancient dressing gown!

We met a very good fellow there, Michael Aris, who speaks Bhutanese and is much better at looking after John than I could be. I had to get back here [Mayo College, Ajmer] as I have guests arriving tomorrow, so have left John with Michael to look after him. It's a small world. Michael is engaged to the daughter of Aung San the Burmese general who was murdered and was much loved by his people. The girl's guardian in England is Paul Gore-Booth, and he is to marry them in the Burmese way later this year. Paul is also the English guardian of Winston - Hso Khan Pha - son of the first president of Burma. I can't remember whether you have met him, one of my Doon school climbers, now in Canada."

1. Dr. Charles Clarke was a British climber who scaled Swargorohini II (6247 m) in 1974 and was the expedition doctor in Chris Bonington's Everest attempt without oxygen in 1982. Dr. Clarke and his wife spent two weeks with Jack Gibson at Mayo College in June 1971.
2. John Levy was a musicologist. Gibson's description of him:"A very rich Jew who could afford the best possible equipment for his hobby of recording folk music all over the world. I first met him when he turned up at Mayo College looking and smelling like the lowest class of hippy after spending a week in the Dargah here recording the music played at the Urs. He had a letter from a friend, and we got to know each other well. Eventually I wrote to the King of Bhutan suggesting I should bring him to record there and it was a great success. He gave me tapes of the music which the BBC played in the third programme." Some of his recordings are in the British Library and the original recordings and remainder of the collection are housed at the School of Scottish Studies, Edinburgh [].
3. For more on Michael Aris and Aung San Suu Kyi see the article in

Crishna: Unfurling Mayo Flag at the Antarctic

Vijay Crishna (No. 366)
Mayo College, 1957-1961

Mayo Flag

Vijay Chandra

Here are some reasons for unfurling the Mayo flag at the top of Mount Kilimanjaro in Feb 2008 and on the Antarctic mainland in March 2012. The reason that I did so was very simple and can be contained in two words -- JACK GIBSON!

I went to Mayo in the summer of 1957 it was because I was being shifted from Bishop Cotton School Simla - where I had been since late 1952 -- after my father died too early in Government service (as a result of an unfortunate accident) and my mother moved to a job in Delhi. Her brother, General K S Thimayya, had just become Army Chief and recommended that I go to Mayo because the Principal Mr. J T M Gibson was an old associate of his from the war years when they had formed the JSW together in Dehradun. I went through the Entrance exam and landed up in a totally different environment from my previous school. I joined Jodhpur House and quite quickly adapted to the new atmosphere, all the chaps in my House and my classmates. It was nowhere near as strange as I had feared when I joined, and I was soon at home. Though my House Master Mr. Raghubir Dayal was the soul of kindness and good guidance, it was Jack Gibson who was clearly the Reigning Spirit! In fact his spirit infused the whole place and provided us with a kind of glowing inspiration that we would, as school boys, have been at a loss to put into words! But I know that that's what it was, as I look back across the years. His red jeep driving around, his sharp, sharp eyes noticing the width of trouser legs and what it meant to see the letters DS appear in the column of your English homework. His hard hand dealing out punishment became, pretty much, a badge of honour albeit a painful one.

There were so many fine masters who leap immediately to mind looking back - Mr. Dan Mal, Mr. S C Ghosh to name just a couple and many others - but it was Gibby who we all began looking up to instinctively. There was something about the man that impressed itself upon all of us young school boys. I remember being equally proud and embarrassed when my uncle was the Chief Guest at the 1959 Prize Giving - particularly because that was the only time in my school life I ever won a prize, and that year I won two! The Senior GK prize and the Middles All Round Trophy for Sports.

 In fact, in the run up to the Awards for that year I got another lesson in equity and fair mindedness that stayed with me a long time -- when Mr. Naidoo our Sports Master called me to the Pavilion where he sat and told me that I was in the running for the All Round prize and then told me to sit down and, in a detailed format, compare my own performance with the other 3 in the running - on a sport-by-sport basis. I was surprised to find how quickly I began to temper how I marked the others with relation to my own perceived performance. It was the kind of inherent thinking process that the school encouraged -- and Gibby was very much in the forefront of that. When I left school in 1960 he took me aside and gave me some warm encouragement for the future. And, after I finished College and had gone to work, and paid a couple of my younger brothers' school bills with my first pay checks- it was to him I wrote and thanked for pushing me in the right directions. 

So it should come as no surprise at all that, after all these years -- 48/52 years to be precise - I was delighted to take the old school flag to both these special places and unfurl it proudly there! Not just out of pure sentiment, though of course there was a good bit of that too, but because I fancied I could see him smiling gently at me from down the years!

People of my generation took away a lot from Mayo, thanks to Gibby, and I am delighted to pay him some heartfelt homage here.

Aravind: Recollections of Mayo and Gibson

Padmanabhan Krishna Aravind (No.501)
Mayo College, 1964-67

I was a student at Mayo from 1964-67. My younger brother, Srinagesh, joined at the same time as me but graduated a year later. Mr.Gibson retired two years after I left. His timing was perfect because it allowed both Nagesh and me to enjoy him as principal during our entire stay at Mayo (without any idea, at the time, that we were also witnessing the end of an era). Mayo in those days was a wonderful place for a young boy to be growing up and getting an education. I would like to recall a few incidents from that period that still stand out in my mind after all these years.

A recurring incident involving Mr.Gibson that is etched in my memory, and doubtless that of many others, is the story of Eratosthenes and how he measured the radius of the Earth. When Mr.Gibson dropped in unannounced in our class, as he sometimes did, and temporarily took over the reins from the teacher, the conversation was likely to drift to Eratosthenes. Gibson would begin telling the story, but then insist that we all participate in the telling. Suddenly, without warning, he could turn towards you and ask you to pick up the tale where it had been left off. And woe to the unfortunate boy who couldn’t! By the time we graduated, we all knew the story backwards. Recently I was stimulated by this old remembrance to write a paper in Mr.Gibson’s honor on the occasion of his birth centennial. As a variation on his favorite theme, I showed how it is possible to determine the earth’s radius by using a tall building. The idea is to go up the building and observe sunset repeatedly from higher and higher floors, and then use the times of the sunsets and the heights of the floors to determine the earth’s radius. Although the idea didn’t originate with me, I thought it might be worth publicizing to a new generation of schoolboys as a fitting tribute to Mr.Gibson’s memory.

Another incident I can recall involved our Vice Principal, Mr.Dan Mal, who was also our geography teacher.  One day Mr.Dan Mal told us about the tides and how they are caused by the gravitational pull of the sun and moon on the earth. Then he went on to say that the tides caused by the moon are larger than those of the sun. “But, Sir”, one of the boys objected, “the sun is so much bigger than the moon, so shouldn’t its tides also be bigger?” Mr.Dan Mal, not at all upset by this challenge to his authority, replied, “You are right that the sun is bigger. But it is also much further from us, and so its force on the earth, and its tides, are weaker.” However the class didn’t seem entirely convinced by this explanation, and Mr.Dan Mal seemed to sense this. Just then our mathematics teacher, Mr.N.C.Sharma, happened to be walking past the class and Mr.Dan Mal decided to enlist his help in settling the matter.

Mr.Sharma was invited in and the problem was explained to him. He was given the masses of the sun, moon and earth and all the distances involved and asked to determine if it was the sun that exerted a larger force on the earth or the moon. It didn’t take Mr.Sharma long. He did a quick calculation on the board, mainly counting powers of ten, and came back with his verdict:  the sun’s force was larger, and it wasn’t just a bit larger, it was a lot larger. There was no doubting the correctness of Mr.Sharma’s calculation, whose details he spelt out for our benefit. Yet Mr.Dan Mal stood his ground. He didn’t contest Mr.Sharma’s mathematics, but maintained, with that air of sagacity he always managed to radiate, that the moon’s tides were definitely larger. So there was a standoff between Mr.Dan Mal and Mr.Sharma. They stood facing each other, neither man willing to yield. What happens when an unstoppable force meets an immovable object? Before we could find out, the bell rang and class was dismissed.

I discovered the answer to the puzzle only several years later when I studied physics in college. I learnt that the tides are caused not by the sun’s (or moon’s) force on the earth, but by the variation of this force across the earth. Although the sun’s force on the earth is much larger than the moon’s, it is the moon’s force that varies much more dramatically across the earth, causing its tides to be larger. So Mr.Sharma and Mr.Dan Mal had each been right, but only up to a point: Mr.Sharma had been right in insisting that the sun’s force was larger, and Mr.Dan Mal in maintaining that this fact was irrelevant. (In retrospect, Mr.Dan Mal’s lesson was the deeper one: don’t get blown away by mathematics if it contradicts well established facts). Though this discovery was no great leap of knowledge, it did play a certain role in my intellectual evolution.  I mention this incident to bring out what I think may have been Mr.Gibson’s most important achievement at Mayo: creating an atmosphere of openness that was conducive both to the pursuit of knowledge and one’s personal development. No boy was ever chided for questioning the wisdom of his teachers or advancing contrary or unpopular views, provided he was willing to defend his position. This had a truly liberating effect on us and made us learn and grow in ways that might otherwise not have been possible.    

We didn’t just learn from our teachers, we also learned from each other. I remember a boy, Amit Mitra, a year my senior, who made a great impression on me. Amit was very smart, but also very crazy. He was always cooking up some fantastic scheme or the other or advocating some outrageous position.  For example, he had the idea that it is possible to train the human body to be subjected to large voltages without suffering any injury. His reasoning was that if the body was subjected to gradually increasing voltages, it could be trained to increase its resistance as a result, and the current could thereby be limited to a safe value. In pursuit of this idea, he planned to hook himself up to four batteries one day, six the next, eight the third, and so on. Then, one day, he would be able to plug his fingers into the wall outlet and remain unhurt. Fortunately for all of us, Amit soon tired of this project and his interests drifted to other matters.

Amit returned from vacation one year in a state of high excitement. He told us that he had mastered Einstein’s theory of relativity. He lectured excitedly, to all who would listen, about length contraction, time dilation and the equivalence of mass and energy. I found myself fascinated by what he said. Because I was one of the rapidly dwindling band of devotees who longed for more, he favored me with several private lessons of my own. I can remember his sitting next to me in the dormitory as I worked my way through his derivation of the length contraction formula, providing me with help and encouragement when I stumbled and heaping warm praise on me when I reached the goal. However it was clear to me that I hadn’t really understood the theory and had only succeeded in reproducing the steps of Amit’s derivation. But the experience fired me up like nothing else. I promised myself, with all the passion of youth, that I would return to the theory of relativity one day and master it, and not rest until I had done it, and that I would rather do this than acquire all the riches in the world.

It wasn’t all work and no play, of course. There were sports and all sorts of other activities that we participated in. We all had to do everything, not just the things we liked or were good at. I was only a modest athlete, but good enough at tennis and squash to become school captain in the first and get colors in the second. One of my great regrets at the time was that I never got to play Gibson at squash. He would show up at the old stone courts from time to time and challenge one of the boys to a game. He would invariably be stripped down to nothing but his shorts when he played, and his huge, naked body would be glistening with sweat, making him appear like some fearsome warrior of old whose conquest was a most desirable feat. Though in his mid fifties, he was a wily competitor and certainly no cake walk for his much younger and fitter opponents.

Mayo did a lot for us boys. In addition to developing our bodies and our minds, it opened our eyes to the world beyond and taught us how we might fit into it. That was particularly important for me, because I found my world expanding rapidly after I left Mayo. After college at St.Stephen’s and Delhi University, I came to the US for higher studies and ended up living and working here.

In the 1990s (I forget exactly when), more than two decades after I had left Mayo, I heard that Mr.Gibson was not doing well. Although I had not kept in touch with him, and he had surely forgotten me, I decided I would write to him. I began by reminding him who I was, told him what I had done after leaving Mayo and then described some of my activities that I thought he might find of interest. Then I recalled some fond memories of Mayo and said how grateful I was to him and all my teachers for all that they had taught me. I mentioned many of my teachers by name and the subjects they had taught me, and wondered how many of them were still there and how they were all doing. I quoted a stanza from the poem Rabbi Ben Ezra by Robert Browning that accurately captured my feelings:

            Yet gifts should prove their use:
            I own the Past profuse
    Of power each side, perfection every turn:
            Eyes, ears took in their dole,
            Brain treasured up the whole;
    Should not the heart beat once ‘How good to live and learn?’

I didn’t really expect to hear back from Gibson. In normal health he would surely have replied, but his present condition probably required him to conserve his energies for more pressing demands. So I was agreeably surprised and very touched when, a month or so later, I received a letter from him. The letter had not actually been written by Gibson, but by someone who took down his words and typed them up. Gibson thanked me for asking after him and for my words of appreciation for him and my teachers. He then gave me news of himself and some of the teachers I had mentioned, and also of recent happenings at Mayo. His letter filled me with the greatest delight. When I reread it for perhaps the third time, I fancied I could almost hear his voice speaking out the words to me. I then put the letter away safely, so safely that I have not been able to find it since that day.

With that I will bring this account to a close. I thought I ought to share these reflections with this audience, for whatever interest they might have, rather than simply letting them fade away along with me. On a broader note, I am constantly amazed to discover all the things that Mr.Gibson’s students – really, his extended family – have done, and are continuing to do.  Gibson’s students have ventured into areas, and done things, that he never dreamed of – just as he himself once did. Mr.Gibson may be gone, but his spirit and legacy live on.

Hasan: Mayo College Revisited

Sirajul Hasan
Mayo College, Batch of 1966-67

Siraj&Sultana Hasan When I left Mayo in December 1966, I never thought that it would be another 43 years before I would go back there again! Several times I came close to visiting my alma mater, particularly to show it to my wife Sultana and our son Sharik. I had narrated to them a few of my experiences at Mayo, especially about Jack Gibson, who was one of my heroes. Several years ago, when we lived in London and Sharik was just a few years old, we saw a television documentary on Mayo. I still remember the look of amazement on Sultana’s face when she said “Why didn’t you tell me that you went to such a spectacular school?” Unfortunately, despite my best intentions, that historic journey had to wait till the prize giving of February 2010, when I went to receive the JTM Gibson award for excellence - 2009.

It was a nostalgic visit and I was determined to savour every moment of it. We decided on the morning of February 21 to drive from Jaipur to Ajmer, a familiar route that I often took with my parents during the 1960s. We stayed at the Mayo Girls Guest House and reached in time to snatch a few moments to visit Colvin House, my Middle House during 1961-64. Colvin House looked in impeccable condition and I had no difficulty recognizing my old rooms. Many memories of that period flooded my mind, particularly those of our housemaster B. C. Gue, an accomplished artist and a fine human being. Just as I was telling Sultana, about life at Colvin House, we received anxious calls from my friend and batch mate Dinesh Bhatnagar, summoning us for lunch with the Mayo College General Council at Oman House (one of many new additions after I left school). It was really embarrassing to realize that no amount of rocket science was going to help me figure out the way there -- it needed the help of a little boy to guide us to our destination! As we wandered towards lunch, crossing manicured gardens and grounds, many familiar fragrances and sounds resurfaced in my memory.

At lunch it was wonderful to meet my old history teacher Mr. Nahar Singh --- interestingly, despite all these years, we chatted as though we had met only yesterday! Another teacher and now a good friend, Mr. Raghu Raj (affectionately RRS), who taught us General Science, unfortunately could not make it. It was a real pleasure to meet HH Maharaja Gaj Singh of Jodhpur, who was the Chief Guest for the Prize Giving. After lunch, we went straight for the equestrian competition and polo match, which were most impressive. My wife was seated next to a lady who, otherwise somewhat low key, whispered that her son had bagged all the prizes! This was really a most enjoyable event and I couldn’t help thinking how fortunate this generation was to play polo and ride horses unlike ours.

We spent part of the day going around the school as well as making a quick visit to the Dargah and later to Pushkar. We rushed back in time to attend a delightful dinner hosted by Samar Bhaduri, the Principal at his house, where we met several parents and old boys.

The next day was Prize Giving – it was preceded by lunch at the Principal’s house for recipients of the JTM Gibson awardees and other dignitaries. After lunch we went to Dinesh’s house to get our safas tied. The piece-de-resistance was, of course, the prize giving ceremony with all its fanfare and vibrant colours at the Bikaner Pavilion – this brought back many childhood memories when I witnessed so many eminent personalities such as M.C. Chagla and Karan Singh giving away prizes. On a personal level, it was a real honour to receive such a prestigious award from HH Gaj Singh.

Our whirlwind visit to Mayo seems a wonderful dream that faded away far too quickly. I had not expected to find the school looking so resplendent, and especially having achieved such a high academic level and still going from strength to strength. As we drove away, the silhouetted turrets of the Main Building and Lord Mayo’s statue against the sunset filled me both with nostalgia and a deep sense of pride.

Mitra: Memories of Mayo

Subroto Mitra
Mayo College, Batch of 1964

Subroto Mitra

I first met Jack on 11 January 1955—yes, that’s the exact date—when I arrived in Mayo as a seven year old, accompanied by my father and my cousin Badal-dada. The previous year, my eldest uncle had found an ad in a newspaper for the Merit Scholarship Competition and had insisted that I be entered for it. So I took the exam in Hindu School, Calcutta. It was horrendous. I was competing with several thousand kids and we had to undergo psychological and memory tests. In addition we were subjected to a viva voce by half a dozen examiners. The questions they asked me and answers I gave them have become part of my family history, but the important thing is that I got through.

We were the first arrivals in Jaipur House that year—Mrs David was the House Mistress--and Jack was there to meet the junior most boys.  Even at that age, I was a nationalist. I’d seen plenty of Europeans before in Calcutta, so Jack wasn’t a novelty—and, as far as I was concerned, Europeans were to be observed, kept at a distance and never trusted. My patriotism was in my genes. My dad, too, was anti-British. In his college days, he had given a gun belonging to my grandfather Karunamoy, a Deputy Magistrate, to the revolutionaries associated with Rishi Aurobindo’s brother Biren Roy. In fact, after having read Durgesh-Nandini and other novels by Bankim Chandra, as well as stories of pre-independence struggles, I had taken a distaste to the British and had sworn not to learn English!

Initially, of course, Jack was a very distant figure, as were DNM, Ratan Singh, Onkar Singh, Pushpender Singh Vijay Singh or Sardul Singh, then the heroes of Mayo. I saw Jack mostly at Assembly, in the dining room, on the PT grounds and while playing games. I still vividly remember marching up to the Main Assembly Hall on important occasions, listening to a piece of European classical music, then saying our prayers in Hindi, and hearing Jack’s announcements. It took me some time to understand his accent. And the few times he spoke to me or announced my name, he mispronounced it, saying Subrata instead of Subroto. (Years later, when applying for the higher secondary exam, I formally changed the spelling of my name to Subroto Mitro, which reflects the correct Bengali pronunciation.)  Actually, Jack was not the only offender regarding Bengali at Mayo, as far as the teachers were concerned. Once, during Assembly, he asked Mr. T.D. Pant how to pronounce a word in Bande Mataram, and Gurudev incorrectly gave it a Sanskritised spin.

At first, not only was my English shaky, I didn’t know any Hindi. So I clung to my Bengali-ness. It was a great relief to have Mr BC Gue and Mr RN Chatterjee, both Bengalis, around. Kirit Bikram Dev of Tripura & Samir Bhattacharya spoke with me in Bengali, and in spite of their seniority, quickly became friends.  For a month I spoke pretty much only in Bengali with them and with my friends like VP, Robin, Golak, Samarjeet, Abhimanyu, who always replied to me in Hindi and that’s how I learned the Hindi language. Once, Miss Erasmus, our junior teacher, asked me to count aloud in class and I began saying the numbers in Bengali. When I said Kuri (20), much to my surprise everyone started laughing. Only much later did someone tell me that Kudi in Punjabi means girl! In those early days I was indeed, as Mr. HL Dutt recently described me, “A chubby boy with intelligent eyes who was quiet.” I hid behind my friends and quietly observed everything.

Jack and Mayo activities

Over the years, I played soccer, hockey, and tennis, with Jack, went rock climbing with him, or canoed in Ana-sagar in his inflated rubber and wooden boats. Even though by this time Jack was well over 50, he was very vigorous and gave us all a run for our money.

Although Mr. Gibson was equally accessible to us all, he was especially solicitous of a privileged few—Deb Barua, Samir Bhattacharya, Aditya Singh. They were boys he liked or those whose parents he knew.

When I was in Colvin, BCG was the House Master and Jimut Chatterjee became my room-mate. I remember telling Jimut, “Gibby has his eye on you and if you do not mess up you’ll become a prefect.” I also had a room when I first moved to Tonk House and then a year of dormitory life in Bikaner House when Tinnu Anand was my dormitory captain. I was also close to Jaideep Samarth, who, like Jimut, later became head boy.

In BT House when Pannalal Hazarika (62) and then Jimut (63) became Head-boys, my interaction with Gibby increased.  Shantanu Jha, Jimut and I would regularly taken rides with him in his red jeep to the playing fields or the Dining Hall to avoid being late. In fact, we’d often wait for Gibby to give us a ride. That’s really how Gibby and I got to know each other; otherwise, we wouldn’t have, since I was a quiet, unnoticeable sort of boy.

I remember two negative incidents involving Mr. Gibson.  Once, during a Diwali night, an atom bomb cracker was slow to ignite and burst in my right hand. My index finger and thumb had to be bandaged.  As a result, I could not do my Geometry home work.  Mr. Gibson, who taught us Geometry and was left handed, would not listen to any excuses. He asked me to bend over and caned me once—the first that had ever happened to me. He also insisted that I write with my left hand and submit the homework the next day.

The second incident also involved geometry. While teaching theorems, Gibby used to keep asking students questions. Once when my turn came and I answered a difficult question correctly, he was surprised and assumed that I knew the answer only because I had studied the theorem beforehand. That wasn’t true and I was hurt that he didn’t think I was capable of thinking intelligently for myself.

I grew to realize, Jack was actually a very likable person. He was also an incredibly versatile man, who could pretty much do anything well: He could sing (I can never forget his belting out ‘Dear Lisa, There is a hole in my bucket’); he could direct plays, especially Shakespeare’s (remember Othello with Devendra Singh and  Merchant of Venice with Bomi Gamat as Shylock?); he could fence (he was an Olympic level fencer and he used to show us the techniques with the European interns); and, of course, he could organize the most enjoyable camps and picnics. I remember the whole school once going to Taragarh at 9 one night to play cops and robbers. As cops we had to find the robbers—who were from other houses—and kill them by shining our torch on them. At 1am a flare went up and we all collected to see who’d won while munching samosas and pakoras and sipping hot tea. Another year we went to the sandy hills of Pushkar in the moonlight. Jack was the life of the school and in every activity we found him leading from the front.

During Gandhi Jayanti, Gibby gave workers a holiday, so we did the chowkidari ourselves. I also volunteered for the Adult Educational Society where we taught village elders—many of whom worked at Mayo or were related to those who did--to write in Hindi and English. Mr. Gibson took a keen interest in such activities and this inspired both us and the villagers.

At the end of every term, on returning home to Calcutta, I would await with keen interest each year, both the House Master’s Report and the Principal’s Report.   Gibby’s Report was printed and detailed life at Mayo for the boys and his own activities.  He would then scribble in few words on each student. House masters Report was all specific and begin with how we did well and then be critical of us.

After school I visited Gibby in 1965, 1971 and 1991.  The first time, an uncle of mine accompanied me and was most impressed by Jack. The next time I met him at Gulab-Bari but couldn’t spend much time with him because there were a lot of people present and I had to leave early. During what turned out to be my final visit in 1991, I went with Ranjit Babbar who worked for Air India and had taken him to Africa. Jack and I had a long chat and I offered to bring him to the States but by then he had become weak and lost the will to visit new places.  At that time I remember Jack discussing with HH of Jaipur and Jodhpur how two brothers who could be brought together to resolve their differences.  Later after I visited Lake Palace in Udaipur and met Arvind, I realized that it was he and Mahendra—both of whom had been with me at BT House--that Gibby had been concerned about.

Although we didn’t meet that often, we corresponded regularly and in May 1986, Jack wrote: “You ask me about the years before I came to India. I have been writing about them but don’t think that what I wrote, lacking violence and sex, will ever be published, so you must come here and read it. My coming to India was mere chance. I had been with another man on the short list for a teaching job I very much wanted in England. He was a married man and I was not; they wanted a married man, so he got the job. I was very disappointed but happened to be told of the start of the Doon School so I lightheartedly applied for a house mastership there and eventually found myself in India. I have never regretted this.”
Another time, he wrote: “You make a perfectly legitimate reference to my hand writing.  I won’t worry with you with it but have dictated this to Tansukh’s son Omi who is training to be a stenographer.  Many thanks for the B/W blow ups and for your offer of Gurudakshina. Your letter was a very satisfactory one.”

Towards the end of his life, Gibby wrote, “I have little of any interest. I am getting old, slow, and forgetful and I have been having a little trouble with my heart, but on the whole I keep a’going very happily, and at the moment the sun is shining as I sit on my verandah and admire the 20 varieties of flowers blooming in something over a 100 pots.   In a letter of 28th Dec 1991 he wrote, “How good it was to see you at the beginning of this month….. Old age has caught up on me. I have lost my sense of balance so can’t walk more than a few places without someone ready to hold me up, and my eyes are a bit apt to go out of focus. …Otherwise I keep happy, spending most of the day sitting or lying down.  I have been tearing up many old letters and destroying old photographs of interest to only myself: but looking through them has revived many happy memories from my prep school onwards and made me realise how lucky I have been to live a life usually so happy.  I wish you could see the pots of flowers on my verandah, where I spend most of the day time. They are a lovely mass of colour from roses to chrysanthemums.”

The last letter I received from him was his delayed 1993 Christmas Letter with his colored photo in it.  It is published in As Jack Saw It and titled “Jack and his companion.”  I wonder how many such photos of him were printed.

I don’t like divulging my personal feelings, but I owe Jack so much. He put his heart and soul into making Mayo what it was—the finest school in the country. He gave boys like me so many opportunities, exposed us to so many things. I met a lot of famous people when I was at Mayo--Lal Bahadur Shastri, Acharya Vinoba Bhave, Gen Thimayya, Gen Srinagesh, Air Marshal Subroto Mukherjee, Jackie Kennedy—but, frankly, as far as I am concerned, Jack stood head and shoulders above them all.